Yeah.*MENTAL!*
As much Spiritual Oneness is important between partners, Mental oneness is very important as well.
You know, it’s amazing many are not even taking Note of this important aspect of Relationship. #BREMH
And these RELATIONSHIP LEVELS should even help you to check your relationship, wether or not it’s healthy.
Sometimes, a relationship can stay for years and crash after some years due to imbalance in these things we are discussing freely
So, don’t say “I’m in love” Check, Check and Check ✅ #BREMH
Honestly, there are loads of stuff to discuss on each levels… Even the spiritual we did yesternight sef, that’s just a bit of details
But I’ll get ways to deliver you more details. Okkay?
Let’s Move on👉
Now, if you’re a very intelligent guy, who’s mental capacity is incredible, you honestly shouldn’t marry a Girl that’s only good in bed🌚
That’s not all you need?
You need someone that can match your mental capacity, someone you can relate with and agree with. Right?
Guyz/Ladies: If you’re to make your choice of partner
(Which would it be?)
A. Good in bed
OR
B. Smart & Intelligent
(Give reason to your answer)👇 *#BREMH*
When you’re in love, you won’t probably notice he’s dumb or she’s so insensitive. It’s when you’re in it you will realize how bad your choice is.
You don’t want to make that mistake right?
Therefore, open your 👀 wide😊
Can she inspire you… Or she doesn’t know more than “Baby, I need to get the lastest shoes” “I need to go for vacation with my friends”
Does she spend your money or increases it with her intelligence, management and creativity or she squander it with her demands… Hmm
Very important decision! Now you know your decision is not just based on her shape or his height😏
Honestly, I don’t know why ladies are so obsessed with tall guyz o
What’s the secret I’m missing out in this spec sef😂
Me o, I feel probably short ladies want a guy they can look upthere🤷♀️ LADIES O: Why are you interested in Tall Guyz in particular?
Who should marry the short ones🤨?? LADIES, ANSWER O👇 #BREMH
And guyz: What’s the big deal in shape sef🤷♀️
Shape is causing Trouble 😵💫 blinding the eyes of so many Men. Chai😂
Tor, You guyz should confess before passing o👇 *#BREMH*
Thou Shall nor pass without Answering o😎
👇👇👇
Mental Oneness is very Important!
You both must agree to what you want to make out of life and follow through.
You don’t want someone who’s so unserious about Life. You want someone who can inspire and walk with you through the journey of life. #BREMH
Mental Oneness means:
One purpose, One Vision, One destination, One life, One way. Two Visions mean DIVISION, Therefore,work on your Vision! What you plan to achieve in marriage *#BREMH*
It’s surprising many couples are trying out if they are sexually compatible
But they’re not trying out if they’re DESTINY COMPATIBLE😰 It’s a wrong approach to relationship.
When you are working on a Fresh relationship, start with Spiritual, then Mental (Does he/she has same spiritual believe with mine, do we have related Destination?) *#BREMH*
If you’re having different visions: You’re in for a disaster.
For Ladies, ask:
1. What do you seem to achieve in life?
2. Where do you see yourself in the next 5/10years?
3. What are your family goals?
4. What are you passionate about? *DON’T FORGET THE STRATEGY😉 ASK HIM SEVERAL TIMES. THEREFORE HE CAN’T FAKE THOSE ANSWERS MULTIPLE TIMES SAME WAY #BREMH*
For Guyz: Ask
1. What do you do?
2. What are you passionate about?
3. What plans do you have for your family (So that you can know if she values Family. Very important)
4. What Goals do you have, 5/10 Years?
Ask her strategically, ladies are smarter than guyz😊 I know (So, don’t ask her word for word, just slot it in when you’re in serious mood) Coz you want to know her sincere answer. *#BREMH*
Now, I know you’re eager to throw those questions at your partner. But please, this is a prerequisite:
*ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS YOURSELF FIRST AND BE CONVINCED YOU’RE RIGHT! #BREMH*
The reason you must also answer those questions is because:
1. You’ll know if those answers match yours
2. You’ll know if those answers are what you’re looking for
3. You shouldn’t go and disgrace yourself, what if your partner ask about yours? What will u say🌚😂 *Therefore, Do your assignment before Interviewing#BREMH*
Before my status turns to waiste bead if it hasn’t sef🙄
I don’t want to post toooooo maaaaany🙄🌚 so, I’ll work on a material that has more details… Who’s ready and excited?? *BREMH*
Have you gained anything??
Pls answer drop your comments �
Let’s learn from the ocean of your Wisdom 😊
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